Introducing… Elliot and Winston!

Born April 2012 and May 2015

6 weeks post-op

Hooray! I’m 6 weeks post-op! I’m finally allowed to take a bath, exercise, and start working on Elliot’s sibling! Now it’s just a matter of finding time for these activities…

Elliot took another bottle this morning with extraordinary persuasion from Logan, Gingy, and Grandpa. I took the opportunity to catch up on a little lost sleep from the night. Elliot also caught up on some sleep with a nice long nap this morning. After a lunch of Doritos Locos Tacos (which my parents had not yet tried but enjoyed) we headed to Gatlinburg to see Slappy’s campground. I dressed Elliot up to match his daddy. I put some 6-12 month size 3 shoes on him, which were actually a little big.

Slappy gave us a tour of the campground, which is quite close to Gatlinburg. The place needs a lot of work as it fell into disarray when the previous owner died in 2007, but it looks like it will be quite fun once it is up and running. It has a pool and swing set. Elliot will probably like it!

We met up with Logan’s relatives at Metcalf Bottoms where Elliot slept and slept. This distressed his mommy as she was (and is) afraid that he won’t sleep very well tonight as a result. However, Logan’s relatives found it quite endearing. Maybe they will come and sit with him when he is awake at 3AM…

Grandpa attempting to wake Elliot for me.

I have been working on some physics modules, which are an assignment for work. I recently finished the ones on radiation biology. I was nervous about reading through the part on pregnancy and radiation exposure since I performed procedures while pregnant (under the advice and careful monitoring of our radiation safety officer). I read one bit though that reassured me. Apparently, one of the effects of in utero exposure to radiation is growth retardation… I think we are good there.

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Rethinking Things

I was given a link to a course to get your baby to sleep at night. The course sounds like, from what I can gather online without actually paying the $30 bucks, a “cry it out” method with a few other features, and while it may come to that, I’m not ready. Plus, Elliot is still only 5 weeks old. I forget that sometimes since he is big.

However, I did see something on swaddling that made me start trying it again. Elliot does this thing that Logan and I call his “Falling out of the Uterus” Dreams, where he’ll reach out his extremities while asleep and suddenly startle when they reach just a little bit farther than he was expecting. Apparently, one of the reasons to swaddle is to prevent babies from startling themselves awake when they have these dreams. The only thing is, once again, Elliot hates the swaddle… However, he seems alright with it if we put him in it when he is deep asleep. So we are trying that again.

I am also trying to get him to eat more during his night feedings. He usually eats from one breast and then goes back to sleep, and I am often lazy and will feed him piglet style and then go back to sleep myself. The only problem is that we seem to be waking up every hour and a half for more late night snacks. So, if I could just get him to fill up his tank a little more, maybe he would sleep longer. The only problem is that he is hard to wake up after he has finished one side. Plus, it seems stupid to wake the sleeping baby in order to get MORE sleep. So far this has been a bust (ha!), but hopefully it will get better. The GERD medicine seems to be helping at night at least, so he ought to be able to eat a bigger meal without getting too uncomfortable. And maybe he is still too little. Maybe in a few more weeks he will start sleeping a little longer on his own.

All of this is in preparation for the fast approaching W Day (Mommy goes back to work day). I am feeling some pressure as this needs to come together. I have to go back to work and I have to go soon so as not to get behind in my program. So far we have the bottle feeding taught and I am attempting to build up my frozen milk stores. Now if mommy could just get a better night’s sleep, she might be ready.

Elliot in a receiving blanket that his Great Granny Dyer made.

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Baby steps…

No, Elliot is not walking yet. Although when I was pregnant I had a dream that he was 1 day old and walking. Also, In the dream I realized that my son was already walking and I had forgotten to tell my parents that he had even been born! I also had a dream where he was a girl and was already talking before he/she could crawl. I remember him/her clearly telling me that his diaper was uncomfortable and that he needed a change.

I had a bit of a meltdown yesterday after not getting any sleep… again. Logan stepped up to the plate and gave Elliot his first bottle of my stored milk before the crack of dawn while I tried to get some sleep. He also put him on the dryer, in the swing, in the crib with the mobile rotating, and I’m sure various other soothing places. When I awoke at 9 I breast fed him and we spent the day napping, feeding, and rebonding. We sat in the recliner side by side (because holding him gets tiring for me) and cuddled. Logan said that he looked like a little person the way he was sitting up in the chair.

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He got pretty fussy in the evening again and just wanted to nurse. I think I might have an idea to help fix that or at least use it to my advantage to help him go to sleep. We’ll see… He actually is getting better on that front. Either he is better at burping or we are better at burping him (or both). He is awake more now and likes looking at the lights and the fan. We are also keeping outfits clean for the most part throughout the day and night. Things are starting to improve…

Last night I had the most restful 3hrs of sleep of my entire life. When he started waking me up at 1AM I was ready for him. He woke up about every hour to hour and a half until 5, at which pont he was wide awake. I took him downstairs to the recliner where we rocked until we were both about to fall asleep and then I sat him beside me again and we cuddled and slept for a couple more hours.

Today we took a trip up to Sevier county. I had a dentist appointment and Logan needed to stop by the court house to pick up a file for one of his cases. We drove Elliot up to Gatlinburg to surprise Gam Gam. She squealed with delight when she saw him and showed him off to her coworkers. She even changed a diaper for us!

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We took Chester, our hedgehog, to his new home in Gatlinburg afterwards. A friend of Logan’s from high school’s mom really likes hedgehogs and has had one in the past. She was thrilled to have him. I said my goodbyes but I am sure this is for the best. Since Elliot’s birth I have probably seen Chet 3 times. Last week Sarah said that her relationship with her pets changed significantly when her baby was born. I can believe it. The pets have very much gone down the priority list, especially the one in a cage that can’t just come up to us and let us know that he feels neglected. We cleaned his cage and gave him a bath yesterday and “his grumpiness” actually seemed like he missed us. I’m glad he his going to a home where someone will enjoy him more. Oh the times, they are a changing.

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Now we are heading back to Knoxville. Logan is going to do some grocery shopping for a little dinner we are having tomorrow to celebrate Linzy’s graduation and I am going to feed Elliot and (hopefully) take a nap.

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2 Week Notice

Yay! I’m 2 weeks post-op! I can finally take of these surgical bandages and start showing off my badass scar!

I know, I know… Elliot is 2 weeks old today! I can hardly believe it. My baby is growing up soooo fast! There is this syndrome that moms get after their first baby, which gets worse with time. I like to refer to it as “Mommy Brain Damage.” It is the reason that kids have siblings and why moms will say crazy stuff like “Breast feeding is natural and easy!” and “They practically raise themselves!” Anyways, I am starting to notice the early signs of affliction with MBD. In spite of the tons of dirty diapers, 3 hour evening feeding sessions, and post-op discomfort, I start to tear up at the thought of Elliot getting older and find myself planning the timing of my next pregnancy. Going back to work is going to be so hard… There is no cure for MBD but symptoms can be treated with a splash of cold water in the face.

2 Week Birthday Lunch at Gam Gam’s

Aunt Jeanine and Uncle Mark stopped by last night with enough Cracker Barrel to feed 10 people and our new neighbors were having a party and brought us some BBQ and a cute outfit for Elliot. We are very lucky to have so much wonderful support from friends and family.

Elliot took a bath with Logan last night which actually went pretty well. Now that his umbilical cord has fallen off, Elliot can take a real bath instead of a sponge bath. We put him in the water and he made an upset face at first but then decided it wasn’t so bad. He did kick off from Logan at on point but fortunately I had my hands under him so he just floated on my hands for a bit. Everything was nice until he had to be taken out of the tub, which was like being born all over again! He howled pretty much until he was dry and breastfeeding. Logan suggested that next time we put Elliot’s towel in the dryer beforehand, which seems like a pretty good idea to me…

I clipped Elliot’s fingernails afterward, and I gotta say after years of clipping hedgehog fingernails, baby fingernails were nothing!

More fun facts about Elliot: He seems to be quite happy to be out of my uterus. I am told that when he was first extracted and put in the baby warmer, he stretched out his arms and legs as far as he could, which was disappointing to Logan since he was looking forward to sproinging some baby legs. He also does not like to be swaddled, so take that The Happiest Baby on the Block.

One time Logan attempted a swaddle and Elliot managed to get his feet free but not his hands. The way he was kicking and crying he looked like a mental patient in a straight jacket! We had a quick laugh and promptly unbound him.

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“I remember when I lost my mind.”

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Wussing out or wising up?

We had a couple of events planned for today and tomorrow: today my sister-in-law is receiving the department award for interior design and tomorrow my parents’ best friends’ daughter is getting married. I had every intention of going to these celebrations. I got my hair cut and bought a dress that hides my weird postpartum figure and I can breastfeed in (a costuming challenge for sure!) The only caveat was the drive. Both ceremonies were over 2 hours away, which is over four hours of drive time, which is (unless we got lucky and he slept) approximately 3 feedings and 5 diaper changes, which expands the drive time to more like 6-7 hours. And after the night before last, we know nothing is a guarantee with him. Plus, I would probably get there and spend the entire ceremony sitting outside and breast feeding. Oh well, BIG CONGRATULATIONS TO LINZY AND THE THOMPSONS!

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In other news, Logan had a successful court day (yay!) and I got my first morning of taking care of Elliot myself. I felt weird about leaving him sleeping in the bassinet while I showered and in the swing while I ate breakfast, but I suppose it was necessary. I played with him extra hard afterwards. I also got an app to track nursing and diapers, which I probably should have been doing from the beginning. Also, so far Baby Gas-X has been an amazing product!

Teresa came to visit Elliot and brought him some very cute clothes! She also took all those newborn diapers that we couldn’t use for one of her family members. Uncle Tom and Gabi also stopped by to see the baby and get their canoe. Now we are working on laundry between feedings.

Also, fun fact about Elliot: he hates dress-like pajamas. Every time we put him in them I end up having to hike them up to his diaper so he can move his legs freely. Aversion to cross dressing? I wonder how he will feel about kilts someday…

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