Introducing… Elliot and Winston!

Born April 2012 and May 2015

8 Weeks

Elliot is 8 weeks old today! It is also my last day of leave. So this week’s anniversary of his birth is bittersweet. But there is no getting out of it. We have a mortgage to pay now and mommy cannot get anymore behind in her program or she won’t graduate on time. So it goes. Elliot will be getting quite accustomed to dad’s office soon. Maybe we’ll get more posts from him about Elliot. For that matter, maybe some of Elliot’s relatives who have kindly offered to babysit would like to post. We could probably set that up! I will do what I can to post at least once a week, but I imagine my posting is going to decline somewhat.

Yesterday Elliot rolled for the first time! He was doing “Tummy Time” and was lifting his head and chest, a feat he has been performing since Memorial Day. Mommy went to get the camera and as soon as she got back (but too soon to have the camera going) his big head wobbled and he rolled towards his right! He looked surprised but pleased.

Yesterday Dolly Parton sent him his first Imagination Library book. Logan read him The Little Engine that Could and he paid pretty good attention. I thought he could!

We ordered the first new bead for my bracelet yesterday. We got a smiling crab for Elliot’s first swim since his boat has a crab on it.

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Last night Elliot would not fall asleep until 11 and then was up from 2 to 3, which frustrated mommy who will need to sleep tonight for work tomorrow! He seemed like he was getting used to the swaddle, so I put him in it while awake to see if he would kick around for a bit and then go to sleep. He didn’t. Turns out the swaddle still makes him mad. But he does sleep better (or at least longer) in it. I also tried leaving his feet in while I nursed him piglet style at 2am and then quickly velcroing him up as soon as he fell asleep after eating. Didn’t work. My frustration was escalating. Then Elliot pooted (which might have been the issue all along). Logan took him to change his diaper and when he came back he put Elliot to sleep, explaining every step gently along the way. “It’s time to go to sleep buddy.” “Here is your pacifier.” “Now I am going to put you in your monkey swaddle.” “Now we are going to your bassinet to sleep.” It was magical! I had to pop that pacifier back in his mouth a couple of times but otherwise he was out. Go Logan!

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Save Point

Mommy did a couple of short test runs of going to the hospital on Thursday and Friday. Thursday Elliot went to daddy’s office, where he tried to keep Logan from getting his work done. Friday he stayed home with daddy. Both days he took a bottle without significant issue.

We went out to El Paso last night for dinner with Gam Gam and Slappy. Elliot was awake and well behaved, which always seems to surprise me. Slappy commented that he was looking forward to taking Elliot out when babysitting him so he could say, “Well, his mom is at the hospital and his dad is in jail!” Gam Gam and I talked about how empty life would feel without children. Things are hard now but in 20 years I could not picture myself having not had kids.

We read Elliot “Anything for You” last night, which his sweet cousin Kyra gave to him.

Logan and I are avid gamers and often view the world from that perspective. For example, Elliot’s last save point was in his bassinet. He falls asleep and ends up back there, from which he has to once again figure out how to tell us what he wants with limited communication skills. “A” is kick and squirm and “B” is grunt and, eventually, cry. He’ll learn more skills as he levels up.

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“Oh man, I’m here again!”

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It’s Getting Better All the Time

Elliot slept for 3.75hrs last night without waking! Just when I thought he would never sleep for more than 3 hours at a time… I think it might have something to do with our new non-squeaking bed. That and Logan got him in a really tight swaddle.

Elliot spends more of his awake time pleasant and not crying. I love it! Makes me melt!

Also, I boxed up the maternity clothes today. VICTORY IS MINE!

I’m trying to decide what to do about professional photographs. I have a coupon from my doctor’s office for the “Watch Me Grow” package from Reflection and Images Photography. I still have to pay for the session, which are discounted at $25 bucks apiece. Plus, I would want to get some digital copies, packages which start at $350! So I wonder, is it worth it to get the expensive high quality photographs or should I just go to Walmart or JCP? I’m leaning towards doing the “Watch Me Grow” deal and then trying somewhere else for family portraits and such. Maybe the expensive place will have a special…

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My little id

Elliot seems to like the song “It Beats Me Every Time.” Logan played it first for him to be funny, but he cooed, smiled, and danced!

Logan and his cousin Bart made an interesting point about Elliot. Elliot is in the earliest stage of his psychological development where he is only concerned with his needs and instincts and has no concept of others. He is an “id“. If he is hungry at 1am and then 3am and then again at 5am, he doesn’t care if you are tired. He doesn’t care if you are in the middle of a restaurant. He’ll let you know and keep letting you know until you do something about it. If he wants to play first thing in the morning, then we’re playing. He demands immediate satisfaction. Now we can distract him from thinking about eating and try to be accommodating when he has to do something he doesn’t like, like ride in the car seat, but one can only avoid his impulses for so long. Stay tuned for the development of “ego.”

I bought Elliot some clothes today. I got him a robe to match his froggy towel and some swim trunks with a funny matching dinosaur hoodie. I found some socks that fit him (12 month size!) and feature marine life. We visited Gam Gam again at work. She was thrilled! Elliot got to meet Cindy and Jeff this evening when they brought our mattress. He seemed to like them! They stayed for dinner and Logan made his famous Pad Thai. Tom and Gabi were there too.


Elliot and his favorite country artist, Dolly! We don’t know if he likes her music, but he does like her other assets.

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Mommy goes to the Doctor

This morning when Elliot went back to sleep at 6AM I was very full, bordering on engorgement. So I pumped. I don’t know what possessed me, either insane curiosity, a need to get my frozen milk supplies up, or just being stupid from the lack of sleep, but I pumped 5 fl.oz., effectively draining both breasts. Big mistake. Elliot slept for a couple of hours and then ate. I thought I had satisfied him, but as soon as we got to the doctor’s office he started wondering where I put his leftovers. The staff were kind and patient as I tried to nurse him. Eventually he got enough to knock him out for a bit and the nurses took him so I could talk to the doctor.
“Have you tried swaddling him?”
“He doesn’t like it. He kicks out.”
“Have you tried the wraps with Velcro?”
“No, he doesn’t like being swaddled.”
“Have you heard of The Happiest Baby on the Block?”
“…”
And so forth…

When I got home I fed Elliot back and forth for almost two hours while I waited on Logan to get home (which took extra long because Aunt Linzy stranded herself and needed a ride). Eventually, Elliot fell asleep (and so did I). When Logan got home, he fed him a bottle and Elliot actually took a couple of ounces! Now we are relaxing after watching Doctor Who while Logan makes pasta for dinner.

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Baby steps…

No, Elliot is not walking yet. Although when I was pregnant I had a dream that he was 1 day old and walking. Also, In the dream I realized that my son was already walking and I had forgotten to tell my parents that he had even been born! I also had a dream where he was a girl and was already talking before he/she could crawl. I remember him/her clearly telling me that his diaper was uncomfortable and that he needed a change.

I had a bit of a meltdown yesterday after not getting any sleep… again. Logan stepped up to the plate and gave Elliot his first bottle of my stored milk before the crack of dawn while I tried to get some sleep. He also put him on the dryer, in the swing, in the crib with the mobile rotating, and I’m sure various other soothing places. When I awoke at 9 I breast fed him and we spent the day napping, feeding, and rebonding. We sat in the recliner side by side (because holding him gets tiring for me) and cuddled. Logan said that he looked like a little person the way he was sitting up in the chair.

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He got pretty fussy in the evening again and just wanted to nurse. I think I might have an idea to help fix that or at least use it to my advantage to help him go to sleep. We’ll see… He actually is getting better on that front. Either he is better at burping or we are better at burping him (or both). He is awake more now and likes looking at the lights and the fan. We are also keeping outfits clean for the most part throughout the day and night. Things are starting to improve…

Last night I had the most restful 3hrs of sleep of my entire life. When he started waking me up at 1AM I was ready for him. He woke up about every hour to hour and a half until 5, at which pont he was wide awake. I took him downstairs to the recliner where we rocked until we were both about to fall asleep and then I sat him beside me again and we cuddled and slept for a couple more hours.

Today we took a trip up to Sevier county. I had a dentist appointment and Logan needed to stop by the court house to pick up a file for one of his cases. We drove Elliot up to Gatlinburg to surprise Gam Gam. She squealed with delight when she saw him and showed him off to her coworkers. She even changed a diaper for us!

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We took Chester, our hedgehog, to his new home in Gatlinburg afterwards. A friend of Logan’s from high school’s mom really likes hedgehogs and has had one in the past. She was thrilled to have him. I said my goodbyes but I am sure this is for the best. Since Elliot’s birth I have probably seen Chet 3 times. Last week Sarah said that her relationship with her pets changed significantly when her baby was born. I can believe it. The pets have very much gone down the priority list, especially the one in a cage that can’t just come up to us and let us know that he feels neglected. We cleaned his cage and gave him a bath yesterday and “his grumpiness” actually seemed like he missed us. I’m glad he his going to a home where someone will enjoy him more. Oh the times, they are a changing.

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Now we are heading back to Knoxville. Logan is going to do some grocery shopping for a little dinner we are having tomorrow to celebrate Linzy’s graduation and I am going to feed Elliot and (hopefully) take a nap.

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First milestones

Yesterday, the Dyers came over and Gam Gam and Logan mulched and weeded. Then they planted tomatoes, zucchini, and eggplant. Tom came over and started some pumpkins and watermelon from seeds. It looks like Tom will be staying with us this summer, so that will be fun!

We had another marathon feeding session from 6-11pm. Mommy did not use enough Gas-X throughout the day and I think he was using me as a giant pacifier (which as Logan said at the hospital “Two out of three people in the room have no problem with that!”) I was pretty sure I was out of milk at 11, but Elliot was wide awake and crying. It was time for a change of plans. Logan got some laundry started and we took Elliot for a soothing dryer ride. We also got him to take a pacifier for a bit. He was still fussy afterwards but consolable. Logan was playing with him and his Simon, The Hedgehog Rattle and Elliot tracked it! He even batted at it a few times! We tried again this morning and he could still do it, so it wasn’t a fluke. Hooray for development!

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We’ve come a long way, baby!

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Thanks

I appreciate the kind comments and encouragement after yesterday’s post. We had a better day yesterday. Aunt Linzy, Uncle Tom, and Slappy came over. Linzy held Elliot for awhile while I took care of a few things. Don’t get me wrong, I love holding my son, but there is so much to do around here that I greatly appreciate the occasional break. Not to mention, the company is nice.

We moved into our first house when I was 39 weeks pregnant, which was not ideal but the opportunity was too good to pass up. The house still needs a lot of unpacking. In fact, Tom and Slappy were here to help set up the entertainment room. I love living here, but I wish we were more settled. We will have to get it together before Elliot is mobile, for sure.

Also, I figured out what I want for my first Mother’s Day: a visit from the housekeeper!

First house!

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“At least you don’t have to go to work…”

Yeah, but with work, I was finished with at the end of the day and if I don’t get a good night’s sleep then that was usually on me. Plus, I could have a few drinks when I got home and I got thrown up on less at work… Maybe the person who had the gall to say this to me meant at least I don’t have to go to work too. Or maybe they were just being mean. Logan frequently reminds me that they don’t just give you 6 weeks off to be nice. They do it because it is necessary…

Anyways, whatever mommy adrenalin I had for the first 2 weeks is gone. I am exhausted. What I wouldn’t give or a full night’s sleep. When do we get to the sleep through the night stage? I probably don’t want to know. I bet it’s not tonight…

Elliot and I spent the day together yesterday. He is lucky he is so cute, because he is sleeping less and I am having a hard time getting anything done in between trying to entertain and feed him. We did manage to push the laundry through barely.

Logan got a big frame for our family portrait. I put the black and white photo in it and Logan commented that it looked like the photo came with the frame. It was kind of funny.

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Sometimes babies cry…

And sometimes mommies cry too.

We had a pretty peaceful evening again last night. Elliot did his normal routine of wanting to feed all evening long. We managed to distract him with tummy time (he is getting pretty good at lifting his head already) and some basic vocalization (some adorable “oohs” and “aahs”). Logan found Elliot a digital copy of The Tale of Peter Rabbit, which we read through on his TouchPad. We got him in the bed by about 11PM, but at a little after midnight he was hungry again. As he ate his midnight snack, I heard the familiar sounds of an impending diaper change. Once he was done eating, I took him to his changing table where he immediately started crying. From there we performed a tragedy of errors where the warmer was out of diaper wipes, there were no more Huggies, and his PJs were soiled. I placed him safely on the floor while I gathered more (cool) wipes, his less preferred Babies R Us brand diapers, and new PJs, all while his crying escalated. By the time we reached the costume change portion of the production, I was doing everything I could to focus on the task at hand and tune out the sobbing. That’s when I suddenly was aware of someone behind me! I went into hysterics as I looked into Logan’s blood shot eyes. Apparently, he had called to me that he was coming to help, but I missed the message in my trace state. We got Elliot dressed together and Logan took him for some burping. I fed him again and we went to sleep, thankfully for more than one hour this time.

This morning Elliot got to take a shower with daddy and I got my first experience with projectile poop. Now Logan is at work (after being a really good sport over the night’s events) and I am pushing laundry through in between feedings. Elliot and I spent some time looking at the thunderstorm this morning while I sang him some CCR, which was nice.

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